Everything we offer is designed to help you survive what has been asked of you, or help you support the people you love.
Things to do first
infographics and cheat sheets
These two infographics walk you through the basic things you need to know. Rules at Impact is for those living in the early days of grief. Do This/Not That is a handy cheat sheet for support people. Each one will tell you what you need to understand, know, and — most importantly — DO to help you get through today.
It’s OK That You’re Not OK
Meeting Grief & Loss in a Culture that Doesn’t Understand
My new book isn’t your typical book on loss. It’s a whole new way to look at grief – and love. Get it for yourself, get it for those you love.
Something to hold onto
ten days of support, in your inbox
Good grief support can be really hard to find. Couple that with your suddenly shortened attention span, and those first days, weeks, and months of grief can really feel like a wasteland. You don’t have time or energy to look too hard for support.
Sometimes, all it takes is a few short words, one paragraph, to help you get through the day. Read More
How to Help a Friend: the starter pack
ten days of support and handy tips, in your inbox
Seeing someone you love in pain is hard. None of us know what to do. You want so much to show your love and support, but sometimes the best of intentions come out garbled.
The cool thing is, supporting your friend or family member is actually easier than you think. Read More
Some things cannot be fixed.
they can only be carried
We’ve got a few of your favorite quotes, beautifully styled by artist Emily Wray, available on cards, mugs, and stickers. Come check out the shop.
The Grief Experiment
an audio book for early grief
One part grief experiment, one part practical guidebook, this audio book is designed to help you find ways to bear the life you’re in – even when that life holds unbearable pain. It’s the extra voice in a too quiet room.
Writing Your Grief
the original 30 day writing course
The Writing Your Grief course has helped 1000s of people survive their early days of grief and beyond. It’s more than a simple writing course. It’s a community. It’s a lifeline.
There’s simply no other grief-focused writing course that will be as supportive – and encouraging – of the truth of your grief as you see it.
Writing Your Grief: solo edition
30 day self-guided writing course
The original 30 day course is amazing – the prompts plus the support of the wider community make the whole thing really special. But maybe you’d rather write on your own. Read More
When you purchase the solo-course, you’ll get the same prompt-a-day for 30 days as the original course. The prompts will allude to what’s happening in the group, but there’s no group page and no community support. It’s just you and the page. You can start whenever you’re ready.
And if you decide you want to go through the course again, but with a community by your side, you can always come back to the original. (check out the course description here – same course, just without the community.)
What’s art got to do with it?
a starter workbook for exploring grief
We’ve adapted a section of the book, It’s OK That You’re Not OK, to let you play around with art and writing exercises that connect you with your grief in different ways. It’s a great way to dip your toe into creative practices without needing to go full on paints and easel. Read More
From Personal to Published
a 7 week online course writing course
You know that words have power – your words have power.
This course will help you move your words out into the world where they can reach those who need them most.
Grief support that doesn’t suck
1:1 support when you need more than an infographic
I’ll be honest – I don’t work with many people on a weekly basis these days. But it’s tough to find real support out there.
Spots open up only a few times a year, so come see what working with me is like. That way you’ll be ready when the doors open.